看了這篇文章,很感動也學到了點新觀點
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parents-woes
14 January 2010
sometimes.... my parents drive me insane.
sometimes.... it's infuriating to witness quarrels where you CLEARLY know it could be resolved if only they could've chosen to look at the solution TOGETHER and not dwelve at the problem. seriously, it takes two hands to clap. it irritates the crap out of me to know how an issue could be easily solved IF ONLY both parties were willing to be a bit more considerate/sensitive towards each other, think not just for themselves but also also to consider the issue by putting themselves into the shoes of their partner. alot could be understood and solved amicably. but more than often, many choose not to do so and it irritates the hell out of me cos i can't stand such things. to me, it's plain stupid. it's frustrating cos i know what could've been done to solve the prob but thing is, I'M NOT THE ONE INVOLVED! it's these.. 'other people'. and seeing how they are not doing things right when they could and somehow cleverly choose to plunge deeper and deeper into the black hole while digging each others' hearts out.. geez.
sometimes.... it's infuriating to witness quarrels where you CLEARLY know it could be resolved if only they could've chosen to look at the solution TOGETHER and not dwelve at the problem. seriously, it takes two hands to clap. it irritates the crap out of me to know how an issue could be easily solved IF ONLY both parties were willing to be a bit more considerate/sensitive towards each other, think not just for themselves but also also to consider the issue by putting themselves into the shoes of their partner. alot could be understood and solved amicably. but more than often, many choose not to do so and it irritates the hell out of me cos i can't stand such things. to me, it's plain stupid. it's frustrating cos i know what could've been done to solve the prob but thing is, I'M NOT THE ONE INVOLVED! it's these.. 'other people'. and seeing how they are not doing things right when they could and somehow cleverly choose to plunge deeper and deeper into the black hole while digging each others' hearts out.. geez.
